Who Pays for What at a Destination Wedding?

By Alice Nichols

Destination weddings are becoming increasingly popular due to their exotic locations and laidback, intimate atmosphere. But with a destination wedding comes some unique challenges in terms of planning and budgeting. One of the most important questions couples need to consider is who should pay for what when it comes to a destination wedding?

The bride and groom typically pay for the majority of the wedding costs, regardless of whether it’s a traditional or destination wedding. This includes things like the venue, catering, décor, music, photography/videography, and more.

Couples may also want to consider hiring a planner or coordinator to help them manage all the details of their big day. Depending on their budget, couples may also want to consider paying for some of the guests’ travel and accommodations.

The bride’s parents are traditionally responsible for hosting any pre-wedding events such as bridal showers and rehearsal dinners. They may also be expected to contribute financially towards other elements of the wedding such as flowers or favors. However, this isn’t an expectation anymore so couples should discuss with their families what expectations they have.

The groom’s family is often expected to pay for his bachelor party as well as contribute towards other aspects of the wedding such as rehearsal dinner or transportation. This is something that should be discussed between both sets of parents prior to planning any events.

In conclusion, who pays for what at a destination wedding is ultimately up to the couple getting married and their families. While there are some traditions that can be followed when it comes to who pays for what at a traditional wedding, couples should feel free to make decisions that best suit their individual needs and expectations when it comes to a destination wedding.